Past or Future?

This blog was started to keep people updated on the progress of fighting cancer while I was away last year.  The shocker is that the blog is still going on mostly due to encouragement from a few individuals.  My expectation was that there would be nothing to report at this point.  The cancer and symptoms would be long gone and my health would be as good or better as it was five years ago.  Foolish optimism kept me believing and support from people made me feel worthy of looking forward.

I looked forward because the present was miserable.  I looked to the past because the present was miserable.  The past taught me that happiness and health are reachable and the future was a dream to live in while the misery of the treatments were testing my strength.

Just yesterday, the doctor took a pound of flesh for a biopsy (maybe it was just a gram).  She said it looks like Graft vs Host Disease but she won't know for about a week.  In the meantime, I just deal with hundreds of red dots spreading down my legs and arms and hopefully not to the face.  My disappointment isn't that I still have multiple weird symptoms.  I just didn't think I would have them this late in the game.

When I was at my weakest, I used to dream about the future without health issues.  That future was today.  It's like getting a promise that happiness and health will be delivered to my door in January of 2017.  It didn't arrive.  The promise of happiness and health was a promise made by myself.  It kept me going.  Now that the problems are still going on, I feel tricked and cheated.

There are three selves, past present and future.  The past was hopeful but not often correct, the present is looking forward to a day when it can live in the present and the future still provides a sanctuary.  It's a sanctuary that I still believe in.  It allows me to smile and move on.